The Relational Field

Stories, practices, poems, and insights for living the art of Fluid Intimacy™.

Finding Support for Repair

Resources for contacting early imprints and growing capacity ...more

Partnership Paradox ,Repair

March 24, 20268 min read

Finding Support for Repair

Growing the Capacity for Repair

How accountability and grief become possible ...more

Partnership Paradox ,Repair

March 17, 20266 min read

Growing the Capacity for Repair

Grief and Repair

What must be mourned before repair can be real ...more

Partnership Paradox ,Repair

March 10, 20266 min read

 Grief and Repair

Accountability vs. Apology

Why repair fails even when partners are “trying.” After infidelity, many couples arrive at repair with genuine effort. There may be remorse. Transparency. Long conversations. Promises. ...more

General ,Repair

March 03, 20268 min read

Accountability vs. Apology

Infidelity: More Context

What follows infidelity ...more

Partnership Paradox

February 24, 20266 min read

Infidelity: More Context

If I Be Wrong

What if I'm wrong? What if I've lied? ...more

Partnership Paradox

February 17, 20261 min read

If I Be Wrong

Stolen Love

I asked Love once why it hid behind another's face. ...more

Partnership Paradox

February 10, 20261 min read

Stolen Love

The Real Injury

Lying, Fragmentation, and the Collapse of Self-Trust ...more

Partnership Paradox

February 03, 20264 min read

The Real Injury

Why People Cheat

New Blog Post Description ...more

Partnership Paradox

January 27, 20264 min read

Why People Cheat

Open, Poly, and Still Betrayed

Can Infidelity Exist Without Monogamy? ...more

Partnership Paradox

January 20, 20264 min read

Open, Poly, and Still Betrayed

What Do We Mean by Infidelity, Anymore?

What acts determine infidelity? ...more

Partnership Paradox

January 13, 20265 min read

What Do We Mean by Infidelity, Anymore?

The Mirror Between Us

A poem about partners reflecting our material ...more

Partnership Paradox

January 06, 20261 min read

The Mirror Between Us